"Don't Let Him Pull You By the Skirt..."

[psalm_onethirtyone]

The Five Love Languages

My primary love language is probably
Quality Time
with a secondary love language being
Physical Touch.

Complete set of results

Quality Time:		9
Physical Touch:		8
Words of Affirmation:		8
Receiving Gifts:		3
Acts of Service:		2

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Unhappiness in relationships, according to Dr. Gary Chapman, is often due to the fact that we speak different love languages. Sometimes we don't understand our partner's requirements, or even our own. We all have a "love tank" that needs to be filled in order for us to express love to others, but there are different means by which our tank can be filled, and there are different ways that we can express love to others.

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This is--really quite right, I think. Honestly I thought physical touch would be highest and words of affirmation next, but because I'm alone so much of the time physically and I really, really am unbelievably happy when I'm spending good time with someone I love, it makes sense that quality time would be first. I like to go out, not just say I love you in passing. So yes.

We made Christmas cookies to-day! And I bought Nanni's present, and worked at the library, and ate too many candy canes, and went to the gym finally, and didn't work for once, and there were lots of nice people around me. I feel good.

Like most of my feeling-goods, it probably won't last past eleven, but the fact remains. ♥ Right now I am happy. To-morrow we're going carolling after I get back from work. Mama just told me she loved me and kissed my nose, which is my favourite. And I might have Manon in January, and that's the best thing of all. The Magi, one realises, didn't come until long after Christmas.

Comments

[reconditarmonia.livejournal.com]

Do you want me to take/post a photograph of something for a Christmas present for you? Like a flower or snow or something? ^__^

[rainbowjehan.livejournal.com]

Would you like to? You are, after all, already writing a song!

[reconditarmonia.livejournal.com]

But that's because it is a lovely poem and I want to. ^__^ This way I can actually have something in by a deadline. It's no trouble at all.

[rainbowjehan.livejournal.com]

Well, if you would like! Certainly. ♥

[reconditarmonia.livejournal.com]

What should it be of? I have lots of flower photos but am expecting some nice snowy ones tomorrow. (That is if it is not all finished and already melting by the time I get up.)

[rainbowjehan.livejournal.com]

Oooooo. Snow, please!