*hugs* I know that I'll be going through this eventually, when one of my ladies passes on, and you have my total sympathies. As for the funeral, only go if it's something you feel comfortable with. As much as I love all of my ladies, there are only a few whose funeral I would attend, because they are my extra special ladies, if that makes sense, and it would give *me* a greater sense of closure.
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Date: 2004-12-03 08:20 pm (UTC)